I have spoken on this before and apparently it’s time for it to come through again. (𝒫𝓁𝑒𝒶𝓈𝑒 𝓈𝑒𝑒 𝓂𝓎 𝓅𝑜𝓈𝓉𝓈 𝒻𝓇𝑜𝓂 𝟤-𝟥 𝓎𝑒𝒶𝓇𝓈 𝒶𝑔𝑜 𝒶𝒷𝑜𝓊𝓉 𝒟𝒾𝓋𝒾𝓃𝑒 𝒰𝓃𝒾𝑜𝓃𝓈 𝒾𝒻 𝓎𝑜𝓊 𝓌𝑜𝓊𝓁𝒹 𝓁𝒾𝓀𝑒 𝓉𝑜 𝓇𝑒𝒶𝒹 𝓂𝑜𝓇𝑒.)

For the ladies: you are not his mother, savior/rescuer, coach/mentor, fixer or provider, or “bro” (relating so much to his masculinity that you become it to fit in/people please).

For the men: you are not her father, savior/rescuer, coach/mentor, fixer or “sis” (relating so much to her femininity that you become it to fit in/people please/not trigger her feminist rage).

The reality is that true unions are based in equal parts responsibility/accountability and divine love.

There is no drama.

Let me repeat that: there is zero drama created within the union.

Why?

Because chaos (drama) is created by unhealed wounds/trauma and shadows.

[Drama can show up like: chaos, (explosive) fights, passive aggression, manipulation or coercion, gaslighting, people pleasing to keep the peace, extreme highs and lows, health issues (the body warnings of repeated emotional distress), blaming outside influences  (other people, beings, energies, solar flares, moon cycles) and not taking responsibility for actions/deeds, etc.]

However, in your own inner (internal) union, you are constantly clearing and integrating traumas and shadows, deeper and deeper, layer by layer. You know that the outer world is a reflection of your inner state. You take responsibility for this truth and do the work consistently, without blaming another or outside influences.

If there is drama, codependency, addiction, repeated drug abuse (yes, even with “medicinal, natural” medicine) – these are because you have attracted that. There is a part inside of you that has called that into your outer reality, into your relationship.

So your work is to find that part inside of you and clear/heal/integrate it. For the trauma cycle not to repeat nor to continue onto your children.

Because chaos/drama in a relationship is not true divine union. It is the basis of codependency, dysfunction and trauma bonded relationships -> the same cycle as what we witnessed in childhood.

This is why your own inner union is very important. But it cannot be passed off onto the partner to do your inner work for you. It is your responsibility.



True outer (physical) Divine Union is peace, strength, Divine Love, stability and integrity at all times. It does not waver or falter. It has no ego. It is a bubble of power that transmutes the extremely dense energies of this planet.

But if there is no solid foundation with the inner union of the individual – there is nothing to build upon. Only an uphill battle that is constantly sucking energy/life out of you because you gave your word or chose this relationship (usually in a state of fear/survival mode, denial or codependency). For you to help or “save” the other person.

This is a false template/program and it is being called to the light now. Revoke it: “I now no longer allow trauma bonded, dysfunction or codependent relationships in my life. I now only allow true two-sided, accountable, supportive and loving relationships into my reality. So it is. Thank you, thank you, thank you!”

Then it is up to you to uphold this new reality that your soul desires to create.

To no longer allow yourself to be dragged into drama/conflict/stress/trauma. To step away from those who bypass or refuse to do their own inner work. To keep your boundaries for the peace and love of your own self.

For your highest timeline and your own self-sovereignty.



The true union itself is not stressful. It is free, it is love, it is truth. It is peaceful, calm and mutually supportive.

That is not to say there won’t be a difference of opinion, but any disagreements are met with open hearted dialogue and communication from both sides.

You are free to express your truth, your needs, your dreams and desires without fear of guilt/shame/lashing/gaslighting. You are both expressing as your true selves, and you both grow together and keep expanding.

You both deserve integrity, love, respect and honor. If you have to fight for any of that in your relationship, what is the truth of the situation you are in?

The other person is a reflection of you – so what part of you (that you didn’t even realize existed, perhaps) is asking to be seen and healed/cleared/integrated?

It is up to you to be honest with yourself, to sit down in silence with your soul and ask what it truly desires. And then to take your god given power and create those desires.

You are magnificent. You are powerful. You are free.

You are an embodiment of the Divine, across all realities, lifetimes, space and time.

You are Divine Love and you can create your union.

Bring whatever needs to be seen to the light, clear it, and allow yourself to live in true inner and outer union.

Because this is the time of the True Unions.

And so it is.

👑✨🙏